I'm proud of William's goofy aah parents working out together in the gym. 😂 2025 is kinda goofy acting in itself, but what's not goofy is having my husband @esnelldesign as my fitness partner this year. While he's learning the fundamentals from me, I'm learning how to be softer. I told myself for years that I like working out solo because it hurt me when folks treated me as the "talent"/ influencer, the person who will hold everyone else back, being invited to places and realizing that I am viewed as the connect to someone else. Frankly, I grew exhausted, even in genuine invites, because I feared having to defend my own existence. I missed being part of community instead of just being the storyteller who bridges the gap to foster community. I feel just a bit braver to enter group spaces again. Not gonna lie: I like seeing his fine ass lifting weights and running, too. 🤣 If it's one thing imma do, imma creep on my man cuz I married him, tf. But real deal: In private, he's been helping me with a bit of my C-PTSD when it comes to traveling on trains post 2020 to him noticing when I'm overstimulated in settings despite my nonstop smiling. I love you with everything in me. Thank you for being my life partner, my hubby, and my best friend - and of course, William's father. We're counting down the days until our teenager turns into a grown adult. We're so fortunate to have you.