...what I tell myself when I look at my credit card bill 😅 - But in all seriousness, I tried to settle down. I had the husband, the plans, the imaginary “acceptable” timeline of milestones. But I wasn’t fulfilled. In fact, with every milestone hit, I was becoming increasingly frightened of my future. Once I could articulate that, I started to change it. Piece by piece. It wasn’t easy and there was a ton of loneliness and second guessing involved, but 3 years later and I’ve never regretted my choice to reprioritize what I want for my future ...and in what order I want it. - Don’t beat yourself up if you aren’t hitting those imaginary timelines. They really are just that: imaginary, make-believe. Instead, make yourself believe that whatever your heart desires, WILL be. And then watch the life of your dreams, become your new reality. Sending all the love to you beautiful humans, Your crazy aunt Jessee