Boundaries get a bad rap. Too often, they’re seen as walls meant to keep kids in line, control behavior, or shut down big emotions. But a true boundary isn’t a wall at all. It’s a framework that helps kids feel steady, safe, and respected. It tells them, “I can trust you to mean what you say, even when I don’t like the answer.” When we set boundaries with warmth, we show our kids that rules and relationships can live in the same space. That we can be both leaders and listeners. That a “no” can coexist with connection. This isn’t about perfection, it’s about showing up in a way that teaches respect, trust, and self-control without using fear as the teacher. 📖 If you want a toolkit full of scripts, strategies, and real-life examples to make boundary-setting feel calmer and more connected... COMMENT: BOOK to preorder Big Kids, Bigger Feelings. #ParentingTweens #GentleDiscipline #ParentingBigKids #EmotionalIntelligence #BigKidsBiggerFeelings