You’ve probably been told, “Just ignore it and they’ll stop.” But ignoring doesn’t make behavior disappear it just teaches kids to try harder to be seen. When a child acts out for attention, they’re not being manipulative. They’re communicating the only way their nervous system knows how. It’s their body saying: “Notice me, I’m not okay.” When we ignore attention-seeking behavior, the need doesn’t vanish it grows. And eventually, it comes out louder, stronger, or in another form. Connection doesn’t mean giving in. It means saying, “I see you. I can help you find another way to get what you need.” Respond to the need, not just the behavior. That’s how kids learn to regulate, not just comply. 📲 The Regulation Questionnaire helps you understand your child’s nervous system and the best ways to respond when they’re seeking attention or connection. Comment REGULATE #AlyssaBlaskCampbell #SeedAndSew #BigKidsBiggerFeelings #EmotionalRegulation #ParentingTips #ChildDevelopment #BehaviorSupport #NervousSystemHealth #RespectfulParenting