We’re often quick to ask kids to “figure it out,” talk it through, or come up with a solution. What we miss is the timing. Problem-solving shows up when kids have enough internal space to think. When they don’t, pushing harder usually creates resistance, not growth. This is why the same child can solve problems easily one day and struggle the next. Capacity changes. Support matters. If you want to understand what helps your child access their skills more consistently, our Regulation Quiz can help. Comment REGULATE and we’ll send you the link. #parentingrealities #bigkidparenting #emotionalcapacity #parentingwithconnection #raisinghumans