By 9, kids are starting to see themselves as individuals with their own thoughts, preferences, and boundaries. Respecting them at this stage isn’t about giving them free rein it’s about showing that their perspective matters. When kids feel genuinely respected, they’re more likely to treat others with respect too. It can be as simple as slowing down, asking for their input, and taking their concerns seriously. Respect is less about grand gestures and more about everyday moments where kids feel seen and valued. 📘 In Big Kids, Bigger Feelings, I share tools for navigating this in the tween years so respect builds trust, and trust keeps connection strong. 💬 Drop BOOK in the comments for preorder link + bonuses! #BigKidsBiggerFeelings #TweenParenting #ParentingTips #ParentingTools #RespectfulParenting