I came out at 18 in a small Indiana town. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. The fear of being hated, disappointing my parents, being the town gossip, and having no idea what the hell was coming next was absolutely paralyzing. Being queer isn’t something you choose. But I knew even then that if I was ever gonna build a real life for myself, I had to come out. Almost 18 years later, I can say without a doubt that it was the best thing I’ve ever done. I owe a lot to my country roots, but coming out cracked my entire world open. It reshaped my existence. It opened my mind, it wrecked and rebuilt my heart, it pushed me to stand with people on the fringes, and it taught me confidence, self-love, and how to love people harder and better. I’m no longer afraid. Today I look at the life I’ve built and I’m proud. I’m proud to be queer. I’m proud of what I’ve created. I’m proud of the community around me. I NEVER would’ve imagined I’d make it this far, let alone be running a national nonprofit that helps people like me. So to all the queer little country kids, this is for you. I know shit is tough right now, and it will always feel like the world is against us, but life does get better. There are people and spaces waiting to throw their arms around you the moment you decide to take that first leap of faith and own who you are. Don’t hide. Fight like hell for your right to be whoever the f*ck you wanna be. You deserve love. I love you. Happy National Coming Out Day. 🏳️‍🌈 📸: @actuallyclint