To the girls who feel like everybody’s falling in love & starting a family and they’re falling behind... Specifically as a relates to having children; Navigating how to answer sensitive questions is never an easy task but I’ve quickly learned that you absolutely get to live in parallel worlds. You can decide you want 30 kids or even 2 one day — and the next morning still question if motherhood is something you even want. You can decide to be the rich Aunty who is wildly obsessed with watching their nieces and nephews & giving them right back. You can decide that you actually don’t want to talk or think about it. You can decide to start family planning with or without a partner. You can decide that though you want to be a mother you don’t want to carry your child— surrogacy or adoption are options. Life is really just a guessing game and the only one who knows all the answers is God. And he may choose not to give you all of them right now. — Not to mention to him, you are absolutely right on time. And don’t get it twisted, I do side him every now and again, but I rest on the fact that his timing & plan is perfect. Do you sis, simply just do you ❤️