I do not expect people to be loyal to me. Your life is your life sweetheart. The decision I have is to get to know people Their core values Their beliefs Their practices Their consistency with it all. If they recognize that growth is a decision With every thought Conversation Action Intention Impact You choose to be better - because Lord knows you can choose not to be at any given moment (one of my struggles) When you take your time to learn people You become more aware and confident in your choice of trusting them or not. However, you won’t trust them fully if you are not in your own practicing this yourself - With your own consistency in your values and practices. It’s not about expecting perfection but we are not. I am not - it’s about being more aware about yourself and decisions so you trust who you decide to surround you. Yes I want you to be about me. But not ALL about me. Be about yourself. Trust yourself. Build your confidence I practice removing myself from situations so I shifted the thought of “this person wouldn’t do this to me” to “this person wouldn’t do this ...at all.” #resetwithlu #fypシ #foryou #loyalty