“They should know better by now.” We hear it all the time. And yes, by age 10, 12, or older, kids can understand respect. But that doesn’t mean they always have the skills to show it, especially when they’re overwhelmed or dysregulated. They need supportive adults who guide them in building emotional awareness and who consistently model what respectful communication looks like. 🧠 This isn’t about excusing behavior. It’s about recognizing that they’re still learning, and that they need teaching, not shaming. Because long-term respect isn’t taught through fear. It’s taught through relationship. 📘 Want more tools to navigate these moments with confidence and connection? Comment: BOOK to preorder your copy of Big Kids, Bigger Feelings. #RespectfulParenting #ParentingWithConnection #EmotionalIntelligence #GentleParenting #ConsciousParenting #ParentingTools #BigFeelings #RaisingKindHumans #ParentingSupport #RegulationOverReactivity #ConnectedParenting #ParentWithPurpose #TeachDontpunish #NervousSystemSupport #BigKidsBiggerFeelings