words mean nothing when you’re not ready to hear it, but I hope the more I say it, the more you start to understand it “Once I have X, i’ll be happy” is a common phrase we are all guilty or thinking or saying. “Once I have: abs a small waist a flat stomach a thigh gap a size 6 pair of jeans... ...I’ll be happy” The list grew but my happiness and confidence didn’t, and that’s because I wasn’t accepting the main thing first before all of it; my TRUE, real, unposed body. There’s no point trying to change something about yourself in hope that it will change your confidence if you haven’t embraced yourself from the start. How do I embrace myself? Stop seeking for validation, stop comparing yourself to others and stop following/surrounding yourself with people who do the above💛 it’s you and only you getting you through this one life of yours, start thinking smartly🫶🏼 Wearing @loungeunderwear new no gravity set!! The boobs I have hear is all a lie lol #loungeunderwear ad #gainwithmilly #weightgain #gainingweight #confidence #gainingconfidence #selflove #selfconfidence #bodypositivity #thenvsnow #beforeandafter #transformationtuesday #transformationjourney #fitnessjourney #mentalhealth