Been single for 4 years now and here is what I have learned. - It’s not good to be too independent. - If you have dating problems fix your daddy and mommy issues. It’s the only way u don’t repeat generational trauma. - you have to have good girlfriends. The boyfriend / husband can’t be the man and the woman in the relationship. You need a female community to confide in. - the world wants you to think that chivalry is dead. But there are good men out there, you just have to hold out until you find that person. Pray a lot. - I am scared to death to get into another relationship… so don’t take my advice because I am simply not where you want to be… single. 😅😂 I got a glimpse of what I want, now I will wait for the man that can sustain it.🤎