I felt cute, but I might delete it late! Joke apart, I was overthinking posting this in my stories. Was it too much? What did the school and nursery moms think if I post this look that I had put together for my friends event (and Al’s had to do the school run dressed like this lol) ? It’s weird that I suddenly cared so much, me, who used to wear underwear as outerwear on a daily basis, even after becoming a mom for the first time with Romy. Motherhood had never stopped me from being and dressing exactly how I wanted...until now. Was it becoming a boy mom and suddenly caring what he would think of me later? I asked my boyfriend if it was ‘too much”, “No! It's cute,” he answered. I asked my tween daughter if it was too much as well. " No! I like it! And also, who cares? " she said. Bottom line: I just realised that the only one who was body-shaming me was myself! It's funny how, in the end, we are always our own biggest critic. Especially as mothers we suddenly tame it down instead of remaining ourselves .But I think it's time to be proud of what I got and let this mid-40s mama of two be herself again! And also, that was a cute outfit!