Confessions of a Genderfluid Drama Queen: . . . 1. Sometimes I feel like this picture when i’m trying to explain my gender to cis people. I understand that it can be difficult to comprehend something that is always shifting and evolving, however, it is crucial to remember that everyone’s experience is valid. This year more than ever has reinforced how important change is. Understanding and accepting changes in myself has been and will continue to be a journey that I’m so proud to be on.