Confessions of a Genderfluid Drama Queen: . . . 3. So if you couldn’t already tell, I’m pretty femme. However, it took a long road to fully embrace my femininity and put it on display. For all of my life I always felt different than the other boys and was led to believe it was because of my sexuality. As soon as I found drag and began experimenting with gender, I unlocked a part of myself that I had been suppressing my entire life. The freedom to step outside myself gave me the ability to truly see myself and to recognize that change is the only constant I can count on.