Some common responses to “why aren’t we having sex anymore?” 👇🏼⁠ ⁠ ✨”We never have fun anymore together. I don’t want to just hop into bed with them if we aren’t even going on dates anymore”⁠.⁠ ⁠ ✨”The house has been an absolute wreck. There is no way I can feel sexy in a place that looks like that”⁠.⁠ ⁠ ✨”Our to-do list is never done. How am I supposed to just be free and relaxed to have sex when all I am thinking about is how many phone calls I have to make later”⁠?⁠ ⁠ ✨”How can you expect me to have sex with you if you won’t even talk to me about how I’ve been feeling lately”⁠.⁠ ⁠ ✨”I don’t like how I look anymore. It’s hard for me to be comfortable with myself”.⁠ ⁠ Of course, these aren’t the only reasons someone might be struggling with sexual intimacy - there are many more. ⁠ ⁠ However, this post is meant to highlight that it’s important to open up the conversation around sex and intimacy with your partner and to truly hear them out for what’s going on rather than to make assumptions.⁠ ⁠ .⁠ .⁠ .⁠ .⁠ .⁠ ⁠ ⁠