july’s column was about desiring pleasure outside of a monogamous union - more specifically, group sex in a tent, which is maybe the gay version of snakes on a plane. THANK YOU to everyone who submitted questions after my small tantrum about not getting enough questions. i now have legitimately too many to read :) “I must start by saying you deserve this pleasure, this play, this lightness. It’s not wrong to want it and actually it’s so beautiful to desire it. In a world that tries endlessly to eliminate queer desire and contain our imaginations to matters of survival, you really said, “No – I will snog a bunch of hotties in a tent.” I admire that.”