This one woke me up at 5 am so I hope y’all can relate. When you transform the energy of old relationships, those relationship can absolutely change to meet the new level or they can vibrate out of your life. Trust both outcomes. Just keep aligning with your authentic self and everything else will arrange itself accordingly. I’ve taken space from people and continued to focus on myself only to reconnect with the person later and realize our energies are even better aligned. The relationship evolved naturally because the work was simultaneously happening with each person individually. An old relationship pattern for me is outgrowing the relationship in its previous version and then focusing on the other person’s growth because I didn’t want to leave them behind. I would stay because of a limiting belief about what loyalty and commitment to soul mates meant. Sometimes in life you will end up having to chose between someone and ascending to the next level of your spiritual path. Always choose the path. I’ve had loves that wanted me to choose between them and the spiritual path. I recognize them as soul mates that administered tests I set up. Relationships have always been my biggest distraction. Now, Instead of living a life where the focus is on relationships, focus on my path. When you choose the path, you naturally align with relationships along the way. Being non-attached to any particular relationship teaches you that relationships are abundant. You never need to wait for a specific person to level up, try to change someone or be weighed down. You never need to carry anyone. At each level you align with those who can meet you there. I have souls who have journeyed with me for ages but it’s not because we were attached to needing to be together. Quite the opposite. Every time I leveled up, I looked around and noticed, oh you’re here too, completely through your own expansion. Wonderful. My highest value in any relationship is freedom. You get to choose exactly who you want to be and I agree to not try to change you. I get to see if we are destined to walk this path together. Either way, no strings attached. No unhealthy cords. See you in class!