Relationships are cool but have you ever tried to maintain the delusion of separateness to get what you want just for funsies? Some pictures from three nice days when the clouds were great and I wasn’t playing the leading role of Little Miss On My Way To Burn It Down. November both tooketh and giveth. I most closely resemble a deflated balloon. I feel unable to respond, and as though I am always just about to get in trouble. I’m trying to come back around. As for December, I’m exploring NEEDS, namely the normalization of using them as a framework for relationships. Is it helping, is it hurting — it’s what I always want to know. There’s a new essay up on Substack today.