Wednesday night is date night. Actually it’s kinda turned into all day Wednesday cause it’s flirt like crazy day followed by alone time in the evening. Yesterday immediately after I finished my weekly coaching call, my wife walked into my home office with some sexy panties on and said “come fuck me.” There’s something really raw and primal about a nooner with this woman 😉🔥. At 5:30 date night was on. One of our favorite date night activities? We go walk around a mall together. We just go in and out of stores, picking outfits for each other, occasionally making out in a fitting room and just talking. When we are out I feel like we are the only humans alive. It’s such a simple thing to just walk and talk. To have no hard schedule just to walk with each other. We ended up at dinner and talked until they closed. We were engaging each other. Asking questions. Talking about our ideas and passions and emotions. Visioning things together. I share this cause I talk to people on the regular who “haven’t dated their spouse in ages.” They don’t flirt. They don’t laugh. They don’t fuck. They don’t know what to talk about. They’ve been sucked into “life” and no longer TRULY invest in each other. I get it. I have 5 kids. I’m busy. I have employees and businesses and “life”. But I’ve learned some Invaluable lessons over the years and one of them is that this partner of mine is my teammate. She’s my best friend, and I value our relationship deeply. So I invest in it and if I want OUR team to win I need a strong teammate. I share this with you fellas cause what’s turned Wednesday into a day filled with flirting, connection and fucking is the CONSISTENCY. It doesn’t matter if we’re traveling or on the road Wednesday is date night, and it’s this CONSISTENCY that has turned this entire day into connection for us. MY WIFE TRUSTS THAT I CARE CAUSE I SHOW HER IN CONSISTENTLY DATING HER. (Read that again). Not when it’s convenient. Not when life slows down or project is done. EVERY. SINGLE. WEEK. Every Wednesday now it’s flirting and fucking and 99% of it is initiated by her! You picking up what I’m laying down fellas?? It’s on YOU to build this trust and reality by showing up!