All I really care about is being the best husband and father I can be. But when my wife asked me to be warmer toward her, it hit me hard. I felt like I was being asked to be someone I wasn’t. But if I want to be the best for her, I have to figure out what that actually looks like—not just what I think is best. So every morning, I ask myself: How can I be warm, gentle, and firm with my wife today? Then I check in at night to see how I did. That one habit has changed my marriage, my fatherhood, my faith—everything. Small, thoughtful actions, planned in advance. That’s where real change happens. If you want to see the questions that changed my life, check the link in my bio.