People will take so much joy in your suffering such that when they no longer see you suffer physically,they tell you you’re not working hard enough even when the results of your hardwork is staring at them each day.There’s "hardwork" and there’s "struggle",what stands you out as an educated person who have experienced both "Hardwork & Struggle" is to learn to be smart whilst working hard.Learn not to be comfortable with flattery and coaxing from people when you truly can tell the difference.Look out for the realest people who truly pictured/recall your struggles in the past,they’ll not just commend your hardwork,they’ll teach you to work smart whilst working hard.You are a product of your advisory.