Anxious and avoidant partners often find themselves stuck in the same emotional loop one pushing for closeness, the other pulling away for space. And over time, that loop starts to feel like the whole relationship. The anxious partner isn’t trying to be “too much.” They just want to feel secure. The avoidant partner isn’t trying to be cold. They just feel overwhelmed and need space to breathe. But when no one says what they really feel... the silence gets louder than the love. To break the cycle, it takes more than love. It takes awareness. It takes patience. And it takes both people choosing to lean in even when it’s uncomfortable. You don’t need to keep repeating the same fight. You just need to start understanding the fears behind it. 🤍 #healthyrelationship #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #redflags #greenflags #healthyrelationships #Relationship #Love #Couple #couplegoals #Quotes #relationshiptiktok #healthycommunication #communication #deepthoughts #relationshipgoals #relatable #healthylove #fyp