I often get asked are whether a person can manifest their ex back or even just a text back.⁣ ⁣⁣ My response to people who desire these things always begins with WHY? You see, so many of us place our identity, worth and happiness in other people and their responses to us. When they leave our lives, we suddenly don't know who we are or what our life means. Some of us attach everything to one person, and without that person, our life feels empty. The fear, loneliness and discomfort make us yearn for their company so that we can restore our sanity.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ If you've experienced a consistent pattern of abandonment or a lack of attention from caregivers, it's very natural for you to seek and pursue anything that seems reassuring. Consequently, you may develop a fragmented and harmful idea of what love looks like; you might believe that it includes abuse and control. And once this manifests, that's all you seem to know – disregarding any other avenue to a healthier life.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Our persistent need for those who are not necessarily good for our well-being can be traced back to an emotional wound and associated limiting beliefs. That's why it's more beneficial to spend time healing your emotional wounds and bettering yourself than spending time wishing people back. When you lose yourself in the healing process, you find that everything starts coming together.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Trusting and surrendering to the process, and then prioritizing self-love will do wonders for you. When you genuinely understand how to love yourself and commit to it daily, you begin to raise your vibration and naturally manifest things that resonate with your expanded energetic state. Those who commit to self-love develop a high sense of self-worth, gravitating to more people who operate from the same level of awareness.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ #VexKing