⚠️ STOP ⚠️ this is urgent. in light of Roe, actions need to be taken. NO, you do not have to run and get married tomorrow. Obergefell cannot be overturned in an instant. however, there are going to be a lot of instances of discrimination moving forward, so here's what you need to do: 1. follow @connectingrainbowsorg for free legal resources and to find an attorney 2. ADOPT your kids -- get a parentage judgment, step / second parent adoption. do NOT rely on the birth certificate. 3. get your estate docs in order: - will: so everything will flow to your spouse / partner / children - healthcare proxy: so a hospital cannot deny your partner the right to make your healthcare decision - power of attorney: so your partner (or whomever you choose) can make financial decisions for you if you are unable I will post more info but for my own mental health, I need to step back for a bit to process everything that has happened. please do not ask me for an attorney recommendation - visit connectingrainbows.org to find one and to find more information on the above. I will be working on updating the directory to be more robust in the coming weeks and months. hugs. they cannot steal our pride. they cannot steal our joy. this community is stronger together. 🏳️‍🌈 tag, save and share this message so our community knows how to protect themselves.