We are constantly re-living our patterns and affirming our stories. Your normal is not someone else’s normal. I was sitting in a room with someone who said “I can’t have friends because people are so needy.” My story is “all my friends are so busy and independent that we’re lucky to see each other every 5 months! No one ever needs anything from me.” Why? Because subconsciously I’m not available for it. Energetically, I attract the ones who have a ton going on their life. As a kid, I was left alone. If I was having a bad day, I could go up in my room and no one bothered me. Why is their story different? Because as a child they couldn’t have any emotions. If they were having a bad day, it became a bigger problem for everyone else. And that pattern is re-lived in all relationships. There’s hardly any way of knowing the ways you subconsciously operate without sitting in mentorship or therapy. It’s so important to stop and ask ourselves - what do I actually want? What kind of friendships do I want? What kind of career do I want? How do I want my relationship to feel? What stories do you currently believe about life? What story do I want to be believe about the world? There’s a way of doing this that gets your whole body on board. One breakthrough in any of these areas is enough to change your life. And when you commit to staying in your stories — you frequently cut yourself off from new, potentially exciting, life changing experiences. I’m a personal development junkie — because I’ve felt, seen, and witnessed the magic of setting ourselves free. Ready for your breakthrough? Join me in Soulship for 6 months. Open to entrepreneurs, yoga teachers, massage therapists, CEOs, athletes, tech people, skaters, surfers, coaches, and any purpose driven humans with a good heart. Send me a DM if you’re ready 🔥💓