Conflict does not mean connection is broken. It means something hard is happening. Kids of all ages need to feel safe in relationships when emotions run high. Especially in moments of disagreement. Scripts like these help keep connection intact while limits stay clear. They’re not about letting things slide. They’re about guiding kids through conflict without losing the relationship. When connection comes first, nervous systems can settle. That’s when reflection, responsibility, and problem-solving actually become possible. This approach is at the heart of Big Kids, Bigger Feelings. Because how we respond in hard moments shapes how kids learn to handle them. Comment: BOOK if you want more support for navigating big feelings and conflict, Big Kids, Bigger Feelings is available wherever books are sold. #parenting #emotionalregulation #raisingkids #seedandsew #bigkidsbiggerfeelings