People might deny being passive-aggressive, but it doesn't mean you have to ignore it. Sometimes speaking about what you're noticing can change the interaction. It's possible that the person is unaware of their behavior or not ready to accept their uncomfortable feelings, which might be impacting their behavior towards you. Passive-aggressiveness is common, and many people sometimes struggle to be honest about their feelings. Self-honesty requires self-reflection, grace, and most importantly, a desire to do better. It's not healthy for you to pretend that things are OK when they aren't. #nedranuggets