It’s normal to gain weight after marriage - I definitely have. I’ve celebrated it (minus some of my new clothes not fitting...) Wanted to share me struggling to wear this outfit for several reasons, including normalizing weight gain, but also to share that the reason I struggled with it initially is because so many people immediately started asking/commenting on if I was pregnant. As someone who is not planning on kids anytime soon, the question mainly made me question my weight gain. I would notice myself skipping meals here and there because of them - even though I knew gaining weight was healthy for me as someone who was chronically underweight. For others who are trying to have kids, the question of “are you pregnant,” can be incredibly triggering and hurtful. You never know if someone is dealing with infertility, the loss of the child, struggling with their decision to become a mother, the list goes on. Hope we can laugh together at this moment and take a second to remind ourselves that there’s no reason to comment on people’s weight gain or loss (unless they’ve asked or you’re their doctor...) and never a good idea to ask about pregnancy unless they’ve shared that with you. 🤍