Last night @emmalouiseboynton @sex_talks_network hosted @marbyandelm @scottyunfamous & I to discuss the amazing sex secrets postcards 📮 that @marbyandelm has been sent from people all over the UK. We pulled out some of the main themes from the cards and discussed : 📮Sexual Shame 📮Sexual Healing 📮Sexual Fantasies 📮Sex Education 📮Reigniting Passion I absolutely love the cards and really believe that they can be a form of sex education for people, normalising the diversity and range of what we think, feel and do when it comes to sex. One of the biggest problems that we have with our narratives and ideas about sex is that they are very narrow and by definition limiting. What this can promote is a culture of judgment and shame around sex where there just doesn’t need to be. Sex can be many things to many people and the more we can change the story to one that tells that, the less people are going to come up against feelings of shame and challenges in their sexual and intimate lives. #sextalks #londonedition #sexsecrets #postcard #youvegotmail #secret #marbyandelm #sharingsecrets #notaboo #noshame #sexed #sexandrelationships #sexeducation #normalise #letstalkaboutit #letstalkaboutsex #paneldiscussion #shame #fantasy #healing #therapy #therapist #humansexuality #sexualwellness #sexualwellbeing #sexology #sexologist #vulnerability #pleasure