Not gonna tell you why I filed for divorce, but I’ll tell you a little bit of what happened after I did.. Instead of filling out the divorce paperwork, my ex surprised me with an Excel spreadsheet of all the bills I’d have to pay on my own, including splitting Hulu and Netflix. Then he quit his job, knowing I didn’t have a stable income to support the kids on my own. We agreed on a 70/30 custody split, but he still didn’t like me having any free time and somehow always started fights with me on swap days when I was supposed to have the weekend to myself.