A devastating story. I’m so, so sorry for the loss of this amazing woman - her family said she was a ‘fiercely independent woman with a strong sense of fairness- always helping others’ a solicitor with her whole life right before her. Do not gaslight yourself. You feel unsafe because I/ we/ you see these stories all the time. It’s inconvenient and frustrating for others for you to voice how much these stories affect you. Do not be told ‘you’re being dramatic’. What would you like to see change?