We’re only on day 2 of the Desire Cruise, but here are a few lessons & reminders from the happy couples on board: . 1. Live intentionally — not habitually. Don’t do things out of habit alone. Identify what matters to you and make more time and space for those things. 2. Play, prioritize fun & create harmless secrets. One couple has a Boobs-Around-The-World album on their phone. They take pics of her flashing him on their travels and use them to recall fond (and saucy) memories when they’re back home in their daily routine. . 3. Plan regularly. You can’t control everything, but take some time to ask your partner what they want out of the next year or two. And do what you can to support them and make it happen. . 4. Get naked when you can. It feels so good to just be in your skin — no judgment, labels or pressure. . I’m off to teach my first workshop now. Wish me luck!