#stitch with @noeahjacobs within 3 months of a relationship, newness starts to wear off and true colors start to show, but it isn’t until a year later that someone’s true colors really show (outside of narcs) but a man will know base on the behavior you present within that first year if you are what he wants to invest his future into and if your behavior changes for the worse, he will change his mind as quick as he made it up.