*we’re I simply CANNOT with the idea that fat girls having standards shouldn’t be a thing. As if we’re expected to settle. Like... hello! It’s 2021. Not only are we expecting more for ourselves not just as fat women/femmes but as PEOPLE who are allowed to have nice things, BUT we are only accepting what and who we want. And if I want a 6’2” strong chocolate man with a nice smile, a good sense of humor, great fashion sense, and big hands, then SO BE IT!