“A lot of times [men] are taught to be useful by using physical strength or our brain in an aggressive, competitive way. Not in an empathetic way. Not in an open, collaborative way. It's the same thing when you have all these guys, like, asking people to debate them on Twitter. That's the same as arm wrestling. It's about defeating. And that's what the male ideal has been. Dominating. Defeating. Crushing. Killing. Destroying. That's what being jacked is.” After changing his body for an upcoming Marvel movie (and partly to change Hollywood’s perception of him), the very thoughtful and very funny Kumail Nanjiani was left with all sorts of questions about manhood, body image, and learning to live in his new superhero skin. Go to gq.com if you want to check it out! Big shouts to my guy @samschube for replacing all the bad writing with good writing (editing), @byaaronsinclair for the photos, and @mobolajidawodu for styling/this beautiful lilac sweater.