When I decided to not use time outs bribes and threats with ny son, my husband wasn’t on the same page as me. He couldn’t understand how children could learn to listen if you didn’t coerce or make them to when they refused. I was at the very beginning of all my reading and study with the peaceful parent institute that I didn’t know how to answer his questions properly in a way that satisfied his concerns 😅😅 however I kept modelling and putting into practise what I was learning and tried my best not to lecture him. I listened to all my audio books and audios from my study out loud when we were both in the same room in hope he was low key listening 😂😂 eventually I began hearing him saying the same things and using the same techniques and he came to me one day after sitting with our son through one of his meltdowns and he said “man all he really needs is someone to validate how he’s feeling and feel understood and then he was away playing again. They really are just like us in that way” 🫶 and we’ve been on the same page since, don’t get me wrong we both tap in an tap out or intervene for each-other when one of use are struggling to stay calm but we are a team 🫶 Did your partner started peaceful parenting because of your modelling? Please drop a 🤍 if yes! If not, what was it that helped them want to try peaceful parenting?#peacefulparenting #emotionalintelligenceforkids #emotionalregulation #coparenting #peacefulpartnering