And we laugh because he’s so young and we excuse it by saying, oh he’ll change as he gets older, but then we see countless examples of these toxic older men who didn’t change and just marry in the expectation that they are getting a new servant to take care of them. It’s only funny because it’s his theoretical future wife we’re laughing at, not his current partner. It’s only funny until it isn’t. #thebarissolow #toxicmasculinity