Protagonist @bee.the.love ________________________________________________________ Balance is a thing Im struggling with because it always feels as if Im being pulled in several directions. Twisted and turned, used, gaslit, battered or beaten pick your poison for the day and I would have already been force feed on it twice for the day. While its being personified that the other person is the victim instead. Whats crazy is that I start to believe these things are actually true when they aren't. People take kindness and care for weakness they use it to manipulate you into giving more than what they offered. They use sweetness for the ability to take out their frustrations on you and act as if you are somehow being unreasonable when you put your feet down. When you are no longer an unending well of forgiveness and giving then suddenly you are withholding rather than protecting yourself. Somehow you have become an abuser instead of setting boundaries. Setting lines with people so they dont take advantage of you in this timeline is just now viewed as abuse because people believe they deserve anything and everything. Allow your marks in the sand to final . Keep the lines drawn. Hold the door Keep you Just be Firmly Stand Flat Be