When two people merge hearts, it’s impossible not to change in some way. We assume the other person accepts us as we are. And even as you mould around one another and become accommodating, the core of your being remains the same. ⁣ ⁣ Unfortunately, partners sometimes get too comfortable suggesting ways for the other to improve. They may even indirectly tell their significant other ways that they’d be more loveable – for example, if they possess different traits, talents, characteristics, or habits. This is not the kind of change you want to experience in a relationship. Suggestions aren’t always from a place of malice but can be hurtful, just the same. ⁣ ⁣ We are not here to change each other. Each of us is on a personal journey. Some are more focused on healing, some are thriving, and some are in the depths of an awakening. But we all evolve at our own pace, and change occurs due to cumulative atomic efforts and realizations.⁣ ⁣ All we can do is love someone in hopes that they become even more aware of how loveable they are – full of imperfections in the linear realm but still entirely worthy.⁣ ⁣ Authentic and unconditional love breed beings who see the best in themselves and each other, and have no place in their hearts to cast judgment or criticism. When we shed light on the positive aspects of another, they glow – a rush of confidence and clarity arises and inspires them to reach their potential. ⁣ ⁣ Love and radical acceptance are what makes humans truly take flight. –#VexKing⁣ ⁣ #selfabandonment #selfbetrayal #peoplepleasing #codependency #unhealthyrelationships #abandonment #authenticlove #healthyrelationships