Trust me when I say, once you stop doing these you’ll be able to stay grounded without falling too soon 1. I stopped FaceTiming when I was in bed When you’re in bed, naturally, your guard is down. You’re the most vulnerable because that’s where you sleep, your mind is used to this being a place of peace. You’re more likely to develop emotional connections easier when you’re FaceTiming in bed. 2. I stopped creating my dream life with the person I was dating. A lot of us are architects of illusion. We take small bits a pieces of a person we like and create a future we want. We end up trying to stay with this person, losing our boundaries and ignoring red flags just so this dream we created will come true. 3. I stopped prioritizing being accessible. I thought access was always key. It’s not. We will avoid putting anything on the calendar just in case, that maybe he’ll call you and don’t want to be busy. Comment “Soft Stop” and I’ll send you a link to my full guide on things you’re probably doing and how to stop getting attached too quickly. Follow @tyneciawilson_ for more soft girl advice & content #softgirl #softstop #datingadviceforwomen #content #tyneciawilson #philly #softgirlera #health #softgirlsinks