How to feel good about getting older? To that, our senior editor Heather Hogan (@heatherannehogan) says: Middle age people are where it’s at in the queer community right now! We love a foxy silver era! ⁠ ⁠ Getting older is aches and pains, sure, but the freedom to fully be yourself that comes with getting older is absolutely worth it.⁠ ⁠ Read Heather's answer to this crucial question -- the menopausal and existential bits -- in our link in bio.