Wow… thank you for 30k 💕 Here are some things I would do if I felt myself getting attached too quickly to someone I was dating 1. I would stop talking about them with my friends. We all do this😭. You tell your friends about someone you’re dating and now everytime you see them they say “how’s your man” or “I’m just waiting for the wedding!”. This puts unnecessary pressure on trying to make things work in order to keep up a narrative that others are creating. 2. I would monitor how I fast I respond. Sometimes, you need to intentionally track your response time. When you respond to every text and call like it’s a 911 message, this expedites their importance in your life. This isn’t to say you can’t be excited to see their name pop up on your phone🥰, but to start, you need to make sure you slow your response time. 3. I would find something new that also excites me. Meeting someone, getting to know them, learning who they are and how you both fit into each other’s lives feels good. You’re going to want more of it, like a drug you can’t get enough of. Try taking up a new hobby, or leaning back into something you love so your only dopamine hit for the day doesn’t just come from spending time with or getting a text from this new person you’re exploring. Comment “Soft Stop” and I’ll send a link to my ebook with reasons we get attached too quickly and how to stop with guided journal prompts and reflections 💕 Dress linked in my bio 💙 Use code TYNECIA20 for money off your @noshinku order Follow @tyneciawilson_ for more soft girl content #content #tyneciawilson #softgirl #philly #datingadvice #softlife