".....I think another hard thing about being butch is that certain “male” stereotypes will follow me a bit. It’s a pretty wild dichotomy to be both grateful I don't get hit on by straight guys anymore and also sort of miss the experience of someone buying me a drink or initiating flirting. ⁠ ⁠ I think being a butch masc occasionally creates assumptions that I’ll make the first move or that I’m probably a top, but sometimes I actually want someone else to do those things. So like, give me a call if you want to...." - @kdgoldin⁠ ⁠ SOMEBODY GIVE @kdgoldin A CALL!!11!1!!1! 😏⁠ ⁠ Beautiful, complex and though provoking interview with @portlandstate Professor Kade Goldin up over at: ⁠ ⁠ Patreon.com/ButchIsNotADirtyWord⁠ ⁠ Link in stories.⁠ ⁠ 📸 by @esthergoodboy under the guiding light of the awesome @filmbykait_ ⁠ ⁠ #butch #nonbinary #butchisnotadirtyword #gender #gendernonconforming #lgbtqia #lgbtqiaplus #lgbtq