The realest mindset shift ✌️ I was listening to the book Dare to lead by Brene Brown this weekend & in it she shared that whenever she makes a mistake or is feeling down her first thought is “you’re an idiot“ and I laughed out loud strolling through target because I didn’t think anyone used those exact three words on themselves like I did. But she does. They are words that I would never say to somebody else nor think about somebody else. I’m the first person to offer other moms and people grace but have to work hard to give it to myself. This mindset shift is some thing I am better at doing now but struggled to do for a very long time. Whenever I get in a cycle of thinking negatively about myself I have to remind myself that not every negative emotion needs to be charged and not every problem is mine to fix. Sometimes life is just hard. Sometimes we just have a lot of feelings. Sometimes we just need a really big nap. Becoming aware of the many things in our lives that can make circumstances feel harder or be harder is really important. It helps to take the focus away from the problem always being “us”. We are not in innately flawed. I hope this mindset shift can help others like it’s been helping me. #mindsetshift #goodmom #honestmom ##momlife #motherhood #family #lifestyleblogger #familylife #workingmom #momsofinstagram #motherhoodrising #momssupportingmoms #momtruth #sahmlife #momstruggles #momoflittles #influencermom #momreels #tiredmomsclub #lifeasamom #mothersmatter #momcontent #honestmum #momlifeishard #momsmentalhealth #mentalhealthadvocate