“A favorite memory from my dating life is the night I had my first queer kiss. At the time, I was married to my ex-cis husband and had a major crush on my baby’s nursery school caregiver. We went out for drinks and they flirtatiously teased me, calling me butch. Up until that point, I definitely didn’t identify as butch (picture long highlighted blonde hair and skinny jeans, even a little heel on my boots), and hearing those words coming from a queer I was hot for LIT ME UP. Though it took me a few years to embody butch, life was over as I knew it after those words, that kiss, that night. I love that the impetus that turned my queerness on was such a cis-het trope; Daddy hot for nanny/caregiver/babysitter 🙄😅” - @meagastein Full interview complete with racy semi nude pool pics live over at Patreon.com/ButchIsNotADirtWord 😉💦 Go get ya thirst on - link in story. 📸 by @esthergoodboy Location @portlandpool #butch #butchisnotadirtyword #butchdyke #butchdykes #butchlesbian #butchlesbians #lesbiansofinstagram #dykesofinstagram #butchesofinstagram #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqiaplus #gender #gay #queer⁠ #butchtwink #butchdaddy #pride #gaypride #gaypridemonth #gaypride2022 #queermasculinity