random pic for the algorithm. please share this as a trans ally, all cis ppl need to read this. imma briefly explain what is happening rn for context. i don’t want to bc it’s violent and embarrassing and not part of the brand, but idk where else to talk about this, and IG has generally been a safe space for me, y’all are my family. TW mention of suicide. there is a CIS person (& cis accomplice) who have been harassing/fabricating lies about me for the last 7 months. i thought they were just lying and slandering - which was bad enough - that is something i can handle - when i know i haven’t done anything wrong - and have been all year, silently. i knew they were problematic when it came to trans issues, but that isn’t rare (as sad as that sounds). BUT low and behold, i’ve been told they have not only been actively MISGENDERING me in their rampage, but they used their family friends FBI access to literally stalk me. to find my new address in LA. to find my family’s (australia) info - went through my family’s facebook photos to find my DEADNAME and childhood nicknames. and is calling & TELLING PEOPLE my DEADNAME while GIGGLING and misgendering me. stalking someone isn’t ok and if you’re doing it to actively be transphobic that is like? ????/????? cis people will never understand the weight and violence of this, but when i tell you this made me want to leave the planet i mean it. yesterday i was feeling so euphoric for the first time in .... maybe ever. and now i literally couldn’t be more dysphoric i want to disappear, i don’t feel safe and the fact that people i love and are close to are being told my deadname is one of my biggest triggers. i set up my whole life in a way that would avoid that.... my partners don’t even know... i moved countries when i changed my name just so this would never happen..... no one outside of australia should know my deadname because it’s relation to me is not safe for me, that’s how bad my dysphoria and connection to my childhood is. like...? anyway i’ll be in bed holding on by a thread lol 😶‍🌫️🥴🤕