I didn’t realize an off the cuff memory & stream of consciousness ramble would resonate with so many people. Thank you to everyone who let me know that this meant something to them! To me it’s just a small normalized part of my abnormal life so I don’t really see these experiences as impactful but I guess that’s the power of sharing into the void. Leaving it here for a sec in the hopes that someone who needs to hear this will read it too 🌹 I typed out the first caption below in case the text is too tiny: I could easily go into a memory lane spiral of all of the weird rejections from the NY years of my career, when I really really really wanted to be accepted by the traditional fashion industry. I’ve been so lucky and endlessly grateful to be championed and supported by incredible people throughout the years but there were still lots of stinging moments! Like so many publications would use my work for editorial and then refuse to write any kind of interview or feature or even a little brand blurb because the brand was “too risqué” meanwhile I had some of the most mainstream coverage that anyone could want! From Vogue USA on Angelina Jolie to Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, selling out at Net-a-Porter, even selling to Nordstrom! But no, can’t expose delicate readers to leather. I’m so glad that I finally became comfortable with my own lane, and realized the power that comes with that. And to escape without having to conform to a system that only wanted me for temporary shock factor. And to still have a business after seeing so many of my peers close up shop. Not complaining. I am filled with gratitude.