Not up to your level of readiness, willingness, health or commitment. You can’t love someone enough to change any of these things. Your childhood programming may have you believing you can and you should and that old programming will keep you stuck in relationships that will never meet your needs. And you’ll lose yourself in the process. You can’t love someone up to your level. I know it f*cking sucks. But it’s the truth. And the truth is all you should be interested in. . . . . . #drtarimack #love #dating #datingtips #datingadvice #relationshipgoals #relationshipadvice #healthyrelationship #relationshipadvice #toxicrelationships #toxicpeople #cheating #heartbreak #heartbroken #breakup