Am too grown to be competing with my fellow woman because of a man.am a kinda person every man will be happy to have me.so i dont have to compete.if u are afraid of losing your man because of money or what he does for you,he will treat u anyhow and also u will never find peace and your time will be wasted.u gotta remind him that u were bless b4 u met him and u will be bless after he leave also.